Christoicism - The Hierarchy of Values

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Seven questions to determine if something is moral and good are all well and nice; but if you are doing the classic trolley situation in your own personal frame, its too much to ask or apply.   The most important thing about philosophical morality you need to remember besides Apotelic Kindness itself is that a Value has many definitions but here is the one that matters for Christoicism.

A Value is Something that forces a Moral and Ethical decision that matters and costs you to maintain it.

It is well and good to be for public school lunches until you get your tax bill and have to actually pay for it out of your paycheck.  It is well and good to honor military service until you have to pay $2450 for a President to Fuck that Particular Fish and Bomb that Particular Thing when they file their taxes.   It is well and good to consider yourself an honest person until your wife asks "Do I look fat in this dress?"  

If something is a value it is worth having.  All of these are values; Integrity, Courage, Compassion, Honesty, Loyalty, Respect, Kindness, Justice, Freedom, Wisdom, Humility, Gratitude, Perseverance, Fairness, Accountability, Generosity, Patience, Excellence, Authenticity, Empathy.  But you can't do them all at the same time.   And more importantly in the crisis of the moment what you choose shows what you value.  That is what REALLY makes it a value.   But if you are aiming to be a good or decent person, or apply the seven questions to all of those it can be exhausting and frankly impossible.

Mercy vs. Justice: Dantès discovers that Maximilien and Valentine are innocent victims caught in the wreckage of others' sins. He could destroy everyone connected to his suffering—but he chooses to save them instead. Yet he doesn't forgive Villefort or Danglars. The question becomes: which ones deserve his vengeance, and which deserve his mercy? He learns that absolute justice would make him a tyrant.

Thus the need for a Hierarchy of Values.   You can HAVE all of those values but not have them at equal measure.   You can decide ahead of time if you choose patience over wisdom, or gratitude over compassion.   You'd think that some of these aren't antithical but I also guarantee if you think about it at a deeper measure, you will find that all of them have been in conflict in your life at some point or another.

Unless of course you didnt care about it at all; but that doesnt make it a value for you.

The Hierarchy is a mental exercize that lets you choose ahead of time.   That helps you avoid regrets later on.  This can be as simple as "What are my top 3 values and what order are they in?" to a formally written list where you frequently update and change what all of them are.  Good luck remembering the order of all 20 in your life though.

Loyalty vs. Honesty: When Caderousse appears, broken and dying, Dantès remembers the sailor he once knew. He gives him money and comfort—loyalty to an old friend. But he won't lie about Caderousse's complicity in his betrayal. The kindness and the truth have to coexist, even when they pull against each other.

Here is the key pivot; if you are doing this right a value must always have circumstances where it DOES trump the other values even if it isnt your top virtue.  Mercy without Justice is terrible and Justice without Mercy is also terrible.   There are moments where one is clearly called for above the other; the Hierarchy is simply your default and can never be a substitute for wisdom, inner reflection or just plain old common sense. 

One measure that I might recommend is in the conversations you have with yourself; pick a person who represents that value.  It can be a famous person like Benjamin Franklin or a fictional person like Clark Ken.  It can be your maternal grandfather or it can be some mythological figure.   Think of a hypothetical scenario; something you think might realistically occur some day and ask yourself with these two people what they would each do in the situation and determine how they would react and see whic one resonates properly with you. 

Authenticity vs. Compassion: Dantès could reveal himself to everyone he loves and be known for who he truly is. But keeping his secret—staying the mysterious Count—is what allows him to save the innocent without destroying them with knowledge. Sometimes you have to remain hidden to show compassion.